About Us

 

Welcome to Self Care Finds by 4 Coquettes, where self-care meets sustainability! We believe that in a world where everyone struggles daily—whether with financial stress, relationship challenges, work pressures, parenting demands, or uncertainty about the future—we all deserve gentle reminders to care for ourselves and show love to others.

Our Story We are four ex-NGO travelers who've witnessed firsthand how life's daily battles can overwhelm even the strongest people. Through our global journeys, we've learned that self-care isn't selfish—it's essential. When you show yourself compassion, you're better equipped to extend that kindness to others. That's why we created Self Care Finds by 4 Coquettes: to offer products that remind you to have your own back, while also being thoughtful gifts that tell someone else "I see you, and you matter."

Our collection isn't just about sustainability (though we're deeply committed to that). It's about creating moments of comfort and connection in the midst of life's chaos. Whether it's wearing a motivational hoodie that lifts your spirits during a tough day, lighting an organic candle for five minutes of peace, or gifting someone a meaningful reminder that they're worth caring for—every item serves as a gentle nudge toward self-love and community care.

Why Shop With Us?

  1. Self-Care Made Simple Life is hard enough without feeling guilty about taking care of yourself. Our products are designed for those moments when you need to remember your worth—or when you want to remind someone else of theirs. From inspirational apparel that serves as daily affirmations to soothing candles that create sacred spaces for reflection.
  2. Gifts That Actually Matter Forget generic presents. Our curated items are perfect for anyone in your life who's struggling, celebrating, or simply deserving of love. Whether it's a friend facing job stress, a parent juggling everything, or yourself after a particularly challenging week—our products say "you deserve care" without saying a word.
  3. Sustainability Meets Self-Love We believe caring for yourself and caring for the planet go hand in hand. Our organic soy candles, 100% pure cotton comfort wear, and travel-inspired calendars are ethically made because when you feel good about your choices, you feel better about yourself.
  4. Real Comfort for Real Life Our hoodies and t-shirts aren't just clothing—they're wearable reminders that you matter. Made from heavy pure cotton for lasting comfort during life's ups and downs, they're designed to be your go-to pieces when you need to feel held and supported.

Our Mission In a world that often forgets to slow down and check in, Self Care Finds by 4 Coquettes exists to create products that encourage self-compassion and meaningful connection. We're here for the overwhelmed parent, the stressed professional, the friend going through a breakup, the person questioning their path—for anyone who needs a gentle reminder that they're doing better than they think.

Join Our Movement Every purchase supports not just sustainable practices, but a philosophy of radical self-care and community love. Because when we take care of ourselves, we're better able to show up for others. And when we remind others they're worthy of care, we create a kinder world for everyone.

Thank you for choosing to invest in yourself and others. You deserve every bit of love you give.